June 14, 2024 8:46 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Sugar and Grass
Why do we think we can barrel through her world and call her stupid as our plastic bumpers crunch into her fur and flesh, how is anything we are doing more important than everything she dreams of?
April 20, 2024 10:31 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Trip to the Bottom
The wind howls, the snow falls, and the world tells me that even though I may not have a home, I must seek shelter. Today, that’s the guest room of a single mother’s gorgeous house in Flagstaff. Tomorrow, a canvas tent on the Colorado Plateau.
January 15, 2024 5:36 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Desert Dispatches
It feels much better to be up here, not an apex predator, not quite comfortably numb, using all my senses. I stop to crouch and study the sand.
January 3, 2024 7:44 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Seven Years of Hank
This week marks seven years of Hank. Highs and lows and tons of in-betweens. He’s been there with me when it felt like it was all over, and when I wished it could last forever.
November 28, 2023 6:01 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Maybe We Deserve Dogs
I think about the common human refrain, we don’t deserve dogs. And I largely agree. But then I remember that it doesn’t have to be this way.
October 31, 2023 6:48 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on See What Sticks
The world we inhabit is quite good at sustaining life but not altogether good at encouraging aliveness.
October 2, 2023 10:06 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Game of Fetch
It is so hard to set oneself free from the comforts and fears we know. Maybe it is only when the body reaches terminal velocity that we realize a new haircut or a whole new life would’ve been a lot less scary than the elaborate confines of the mind.
May 5, 2023 12:24 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Sowing Seeds
Perhaps what I struggle with the most is finding that freedom. Freedom to be proud of what I’m building, freedom to build what I want to.
September 24, 2022 5:57 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
That is the ultimate appeal of clickbait headlines about hookers and blow, of Alexander Supertramp lighting his substantial inherited wealth on fire somewhere in the desert. We fantasize about being rockstars, firefighters, farmers, poets. We want to be who we were, before it all changed.
September 15, 2022 7:23 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Keeping Vigil
Is the duty of the living to honor the dead, or is it our fate to build new life off the backs of the anonymous billions who have gone before us?
June 14, 2022 7:50 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
There is something about life that feels more beautiful when it is strained through the filter of the finite. Some part of our beings is best at appreciating the good when we know it is running out.
March 30, 2022 7:11 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on There’s a War On
The fear and mistrust of joy is a very natural human response to an illogical world.
February 5, 2022 7:21 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
Not only are dogs more honest, in time they will tell us everything we need to know about the people they are associated with. Dogs always have a lot to teach us about ourselves.
February 3, 2022 9:11 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Picture Perfect
How many layers of a “picture perfect life” are our true selves buried beneath?
Perhaps the most pervasive question in my confusing life is which version of myself is the realest and where the edge between righteous discontent and selfish ingratitude really is.
January 4, 2022 4:51 amPublished by John Montesi4 Comments
It costs us nothing to dream, it costs us everything to learn that we were dreaming the wrong thing.
September 6, 2021 10:02 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
Forty years ago, DDT was thinning bald eagle eggs to the point that a mama bird would crush her own brood while trying to incubate them. Finally, a few devout scientists proved this and changed the agricultural chemical industry for the marginally better. If only our mama birds recognized that the weight of their own skewed expectations were crushing us all to death.
July 24, 2021 1:32 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Spilling Blood
It is strangely soothing to feel the adrenaline surging towards the wound and to see the inner workings bubbling up to the surface.
Perhaps this is the epitome of the conscious living experience, to have a few fleeting moments of heightened awareness where what’s before us is razor-sharp and what’s behind us is gone.
May 10, 2021 4:38 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
Holding back doesn’t lessen the pain of the loss, but it sure as hell lessens the joy of the having.
April 4, 2021 10:09 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Tattoos
We need physicality, need to feel some presence and ownership in the bodies we inhabit. Without it, the mind will run rampant, will run away with itself and constantly try to leave the flesh behind.
March 30, 2021 4:37 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Just Say It
There is no moral high ground, just the ugly work of growing, healing, becoming.
March 27, 2021 4:54 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Spring Again
I want my joys to be total, my thirsts quenchable, my fears primal. Compounding interest and the calculated torments of the internet make a hungry wolf sound downright friendly.
February 20, 2021 7:15 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Moving and Staying Still
The most unnatural thing we can do is ignore the calling to draw near and reflect, to suppress the urge to go out and seek, to demand a sameness from our souls that robs them of the very quality which makes them soulful.
February 17, 2021 11:19 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
These times, the only place you have to go is within. The only people you can eavesdrop live within your own mind, and people will tell you that hearing voices makes you crazy.
February 2, 2021 9:50 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on So hard to live the dream
I can see it all so clearly, it torments me in my sleeping dreams. Slips away when I awake. It is no closer or farther, but duties and doubts don’t have much power in the REM world.
December 16, 2020 6:58 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
Where I stand, the world is quiet. Wind whispers through the ocotillos and the mesquite trees, its song through the thorns cooing the memories of love that hurts to remember and hurts to forget. There’s a ghost beside me, the absence of a soul to share these sights with.
October 23, 2020 9:02 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
We yearn to show our true colors, to display our brightest greens and most vivid yellows, to gracefully grow through the seasons of life for the audience we treasure. Perhaps even to see ourselves become what we are destined to be, to feel pride at who we are.
September 18, 2020 9:24 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Smoke
And indeed, my flesh is increasingly made of the smoke that our society has created. It is not just routine incense of aspen and pine. It is acrid smoke, spreading across an entire continent, filled with bits of electrical wiring and industrial paint, finer and lighter than ever because the vegetation is so dry.
August 31, 2020 4:18 amPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
When I talk to friends, it is via a telephone screen, which physiologically contributes to headaches and psychologically contributes to isolation.
August 12, 2020 11:17 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Leery of Contentment
The progress addict is leery of contentment, for it threatens the need to constantly be falling forwards.
July 23, 2020 11:15 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on You Won’t See Me
Being an expert in solitude has its costs. You play the long game, accustomed to the sense that there is nothing rushing you to act. And then a forceful suitor swoops in, a lease runs out, bills come up due. Day turns to night, and so it does until another year has passed. The world waits for no one.
May 12, 2020 5:22 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
Like the rootbound plant which withers when set free, we adapt to the particular habitat that sustains us.
April 22, 2020 5:35 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Nostalgia
Nostalgia is the truest form of grief. It washes over us with deceptive warm waves of comfort and familiarity, reaching out with open arms to welcome us to the throes of something that never was.
March 9, 2020 6:15 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Near Death Experience
The near death experience may be the moment before the fall is halted by the ground, it may be the first tumble when everything is pain and ringing noises and a flash of white light. Or it may be what happens months, or even years, later. It has nothing to do with injuries or lightning strikes or natural gas leaks. The more comfortable we get and the further from our dreams we stray, the nearer to death we truly become.
February 24, 2020 7:06 pmPublished by John Montesi3 Comments
Oftentimes, the reality of life is difficult to believe. Not only is truth stranger than fiction, but there is a noteworthy disconnect between our expectations, our perceptions, and the unflinching march of time.
February 7, 2020 6:43 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
There is a pervasive myth in humanity that the best way to get through life is with hope of a better tomorrow.
February 4, 2020 6:12 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
The word ‘depressed’ is ridiculously complicated. Not that any word in any language means just one thing, but few words mean more things than depression. Everything from measurable chemical imbalances to tropical storm systems to underperforming stock markets can lead to depression.
January 31, 2020 8:29 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on We Live in a Simulation
For all the advancements our society has made, the world still rewards those who can separate their conscience from their actions. Close the deal, shoot the wounded, put profit before people. There is not a visible cosmic arbiter of justice and this means only that one’s ingrained sense of right and wrong is a hindrance in the earthly realm.
January 27, 2020 7:39 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Lost in Translation
Ultimately, we are confined to the languages we share with others. The spoken and written languages of the world. The things we trade in. The artistic media that leave everything open to interpretation yet create fleeting bits of solace and solidarity.
January 6, 2020 9:05 pmPublished by John Montesi3 Comments
Somewhere between January and December, between sunrise and sunset, life turns into a series of processes that can rob the days of their original potential. From the alarm clock to clocking in, the hours tick away marked by a ceaseless process that forces us into line.
September 9, 2019 5:40 pmPublished by John Montesi4 Comments
Without profound solitude, everything else feels frivolous at best. After a while, no distraction is as satisfying as not being distracted.
July 21, 2019 11:48 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
When someone says “This is as good as it gets,” what connotation does that have for you? What about if they ask, “Is this as good as it gets?”
April 29, 2019 2:00 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Shreddin’
I often notice myself feeling leery of promise because it contains a tremendous amount of kinetic energy. It is why I like to be like a rolling stone, neither gathering moss nor bothered much by the rough and tumble of rolling downhill.
March 10, 2019 8:39 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
Through the eroding power of time and numbing experiences, these days the inputs have to be somewhat stronger to come through. Connections corrode with time and rust is simply a protective shell for the fresh parts beneath it.
February 1, 2019 8:52 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
Everyone is so afraid of sharing a spork and sleeping on the ground that they forget to be afraid of what happens when they think themselves above such things.
December 14, 2018 8:46 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Spending Time
Spending money you don’t really have on other people feels like a desperate post-capitalistic mating ritual. Spending money you don’t really have on yourself is a perfect reminder of the relative value of currency.
December 2, 2018 7:42 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
By the time we realize bumps could jolt us back awake after the smoothness becomes dangerously hypnotizing, it is too... View Article
November 26, 2018 8:25 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
You should never admit these things, especially not in writing, because it is a weakness, a liability, a pox on... View Article
November 15, 2018 6:41 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Seasons
Feeling the seasons change is surreal, because it always brings with it a rushing nostalgia and a helpless terror. The... View Article
November 2, 2018 5:34 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
Emptiness has a nearly universal negative connotation. It is forced to duke it out with its syntactical opposition ‘half full,’... View Article
October 24, 2018 7:32 pmPublished by John Montesi1 Comment
My mind flashes back to that ride in the Ozarks, when fast-driving cars plowed through fluttering butterflies, when I stopped... View Article
February 11, 2018 12:34 pmPublished by John Montesi2 Comments
As time passes, I am stricken by many things: the urgency a brush with death places upon us. Our ability to normalize and gloss over such a traumatic experience in order to ‘move on.’ The way survival is so fickle and random that it can all feel very pointless or extraordinarily meaningful. The difference a day makes.
November 27, 2017 1:35 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on It Feels Wrong to Write
I find beauty and hope in the individual and collective human ability to defy the odds. I am also radically overwhelmed by it. Isn't our existence a miracle that should be revered? Aren't we preposterously fleeting? Should we take things less seriously? Is it possible to take things seriously enough?
November 1, 2017 1:56 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Arctic Ocean
in this moment, I stood still and shivering and let reality wash over me and blow into my core. It is hysterical how little marketing influences you or how much some other human’s selfish decisions can affect your faith or resolve when you are standing with your toes in the Arctic Ocean.
October 24, 2017 11:50 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Bearded Ones
If there is one quality that I’ve been told I possess which I’m finally starting to truly believe, it’s that I still get as excited as a child about lizards and automobiles and carnivorous plants and, as it turns out, muskoxen. I think this is my number one greatest survival skill, because it gives me the upper hand over any number of existential crises, chemical imbalances, and structural damages that may otherwise rob me of much desire to proceed.
October 11, 2017 2:58 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Peeing in the Arctic Circle
I stood there in a long sleeve T-shirt and blue jeans, exposed in all the most vulnerable ways to the elements, and felt a certain type of ridiculous freedom that men often chase their entire lives. One would never explicitly state that they aspire to something as trite as peeing atop Atiguin Pass, but that may be part of the problem.
September 26, 2017 12:20 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Explanations.
I snapped a few photos and then resumed staring at the otherworldly glow, pining after a sip or two of whiskey which was never offered and cursing the clouds that seemed to roll in right as the Lights intensified.
September 9, 2017 2:06 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Breaking Your Own Rules
"On the road again, kissing toes and meeting the characters who make Dawson such a vibrant enclave, I was forced to acknowledge the joy which supersedes the easy checklist items I was racing towards. Items which will always be there, which serve a purpose but do not provide one."
August 31, 2017 7:11 pmPublished by John Montesi9 Comments
I stood and let conditioned fear course through my veins and simply observed it from a few feet above my body. For all of these misguided warnings, there I was, completely, utterly alone and more alive than ever. Not even the smallest bone in my body felt lonely in that moment.
August 26, 2017 4:33 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on In Lieu of the Cosmos
We pulled into the shallows, and the dizzying pace of the water just beyond the barrier island gave me something to focus on.
“I think that big eclipse is starting right around now,” I offered.
“What eclipse?” he asked me.
August 24, 2017 9:51 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Fifteen Minutes from Alaska
These snippets are always taken out of context, and they often make others feel inferior and the sharer feel isolated, as if their reality isn’t living up to outsiders’ expectations of it. Happiness is not guaranteed by the sight of snow-capped mountains, though they are never unwelcome. A smile in a moment does not tell the full story. One does not and cannot cross a border or climb a mountain every second of their lives.
August 15, 2017 4:30 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Welcome to Alaska
These intersections of theoretical and physical delight me to no end, and I wanted to ask an international legal expert all kinds of questions about what might happen in any number of potential scenarios in this exact spot.
August 11, 2017 6:08 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Space & Time and the Final Frontier
It is healthy to have our schema shattered repeatedly. It creates a certain open-mindedness and healthy humility. It separates us from the crippling weight of individual situations and frees us from the sense that basic outcomes may dictate our entire lives in a hubristically finite set of options. Every mile covered by the Land Cruiser is earned in a way that would seem blessedly easy to Lewis or Clark or Muir, no matter how brutish they may feel at the time. Every time I believe myself close to an understanding or even a point on a map, I secretly relish being crushed or at least corrected.
July 29, 2017 3:43 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Crossroads
This was a literal crossroads that felt aggressively metaphorical. I wanted to curse the very road junction itself for pointing in all directions and inviting us to follow them wherever they may lead...
July 22, 2017 2:03 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Silver (Scaled) Linings
The next morning the sun shone brightly through the cabin windows before my alarm clock rang. Sunshine in the mountains... View Article
July 15, 2017 2:36 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Lonely at the Top
She knew who I was because I had called in to secure a spot and presumably nobody else had done so that day. I was given the keys and a brief rundown of the area, Hank was given a few dog treats and knocked over a stand of s’mores skewers. It was all so matter of fact and immediate that Los Angeles felt even further than 846 miles away.
July 13, 2017 6:08 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Two Steps Back
A series of machinations led to another, even younger-looking tow truck driver appearing some 30 minutes after we first arrived.... View Article
July 10, 2017 3:58 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Survival Mechanisms
The noises emanating from the Land Cruiser’s transmission were grim. There was the uneasy whine of a transfer case that... View Article
July 5, 2017 3:44 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Middle of Nowhere
“The middle of nowhere” is a loaded idiom. It’s a vague-yet-precise phrase that invokes a certain situation or location, and which could be positive or negative depending on who says it. It offers up visions of amber waves and orange plateaus, of abandoned filling stations and faded glimpses of the past’s future. It is a place devoid of the decades of social construction required to populate a city with its traps and trappings.
June 1, 2017 5:55 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Count it All Joy
A couple of weeks ago, I began to examine the oppressive idea that, “You can’t just do that.” Whatever that... View Article
May 17, 2017 11:24 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on "You Can’t Just Do That"
I recently became aware of the improbable story of Amanda Coker. It is noteworthy in several ways. Firstly, she just... View Article
April 18, 2017 1:56 pmPublished by John Montesi5 Comments
I shirk at the word escapism, though my counselor has encouraged me increasingly not to attach pejorative connotations to things... View Article
April 13, 2017 4:48 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on A Bar at the End of the World
Sometimes you see something furry and want to touch it, whether it’s a puppy or someone’s velvet jacket. Sometimes you let a bartender plan the majority of your day with no idea of what you’re agreeing to.
April 12, 2017 12:35 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Getting off the Couch is the Hardest Thing You’ll Do Today
How would you like to feel 10% less like spontaneously weeping and 90% less passionate about everything from the sound of music to laughing at jokes to your dog’s wellbeing?
April 4, 2017 12:19 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Darkness, Light, and a Sunset in Maine
This moment turned out to be a subtle turning point in the narrative. Since picking up the Land Cruiser and having a hilarious Saint Paddy’s Day that was blessedly free of self-awareness sabotaging my enjoyment, I now presented the trip as not just a salve for the pained brain clanging around in my head but also as a concerted effort to rediscover the simple joys that make me who I am and thusly make me worth spending any time around.
March 27, 2017 1:32 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on A Place to Call Home: The Almost-Ghosttown of Centralia, Pennsylvania
Signs stood in the trees warning hunters not to hunt in this area. We were quite near a State Game Land, of which Pennsylvania has many, and I suppose if you spent enough time in the woods and chased a deer far enough, you could wind up here. Of course, if you missed, your rifle shot might go through one of the remaining houses in Centralia. Or its sharp crack may just be the straw that breaks the asphalt’s back and sends you or the deer into a deep, hot hole.
March 22, 2017 11:11 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Cartography
Arriving in a new city by night is always a confusing experience, made all the more surreal by the biting cold and sound-deadening snow that blanketed the town on Saint Patrick’s Friday. Aside from brief breaks for fuel and key exchanges, I’d last stood on solid ground in Manhattan, which made this quietude a special blessing and also a shock to an addled system.
March 6, 2017 5:52 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Making Moves
Nothing will snap me out of my hypnogogic trance faster than someone telling me that I have more interests or dreams than they do. I will fiercely accost a perfect stranger because I believe so firmly in the human imagination and the childlike whimsy that resides somewhere inside every one of us.
February 22, 2017 5:37 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on My Dog Taught Me How to Read
Hank doesn’t know that the universe is infinitely-expanding, and he is a better man for it.
February 20, 2017 5:08 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Everyday Miracles
I pulled up to one of the only sections of river that wasn’t imminently raging from the evening’s water release... View Article
February 19, 2017 11:53 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on A Surefire Way to Have at Least 1 Good Minute Every Day
Three days ago I said I’d be right back with a few positive tales from the last week. I then... View Article
February 16, 2017 5:01 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on A Lack of Color
Some days my brain echoes with static and feels so stuffed with cotton balls that my favorite places feel grating... View Article
February 9, 2017 10:06 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Stories We Long to Tell
I don’t want to tell myself a story about the woods while sitting under fluorescent lights in a cubicle somewhere far away from them. We needn’t delude ourselves that our masterpieces are just a few months away, if only we keep biding time.
February 6, 2017 1:25 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Plans are Better than Goals
I’ve got a long list of regrets and a longer list of plans, and neither of those lists will get any shorter until I start acting the same way I daydream when I’m having a good day.
January 24, 2017 5:29 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on DILLIGAF?
Somewhere between the dutiful and the nihilistic is the sense that none of us make it out alive, but many of us are never even fully alive.
January 13, 2017 12:56 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Thing About Green Grass
That is a myth that afflicts not just writers but all people: that our lives, because they are normal to us, are uninteresting and dull while the stories and images of others are enviable and epic in some unattainable way.
January 9, 2017 4:28 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on You Can’t Fire Me, I Quit
Even though I’ve made so many dramatic moves towards living out my dream, I still often doubt my own agency and potential for happiness.
January 8, 2017 1:58 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Notes from the Road: The Virginias
From Raleigh, heading North made for quicker progress across state lines. I made plans to move beyond the comfortable confines... View Article
January 7, 2017 12:47 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Notes from the Road: North Carolina
Words lingered in the air like the sparks that danced above the crackling fire. Not a word was spoken about the cars that had brought us all together.
January 4, 2017 11:46 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Workable Solutions
Sunday night at church, the pastor did what they so often do and seemed to speak directly to me and... View Article
December 31, 2016 1:23 pmPublished by John Montesi71 Comments
New Year’s Eve falls squarely under that old Socratic definition of insanity: repeating the same thing and expecting a different... View Article
December 20, 2016 11:43 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Pulling Teeth
It appears that somehow my piece on Petrolicious is climbing its way back into the ranks of the ‘most popular’... View Article
December 9, 2016 1:23 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Highs, Lows, and Rainbows
People are fickle enough on a good day. Even at our best, there are plenty of small things that can... View Article
December 1, 2016 2:56 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Difficulty of Finding Simple Pleasures
Something I find myself contemplating a lot lately is the slow and simple pursuit of joy across disciplines and slices... View Article
October 21, 2016 1:07 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Rhythm of the Road
Just as it can be exhilarating and slightly disappointing to finally master a guitar lick you’d revered as a kid... View Article
October 17, 2016 11:14 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Laughter is the Best Medicine
The vulnerability offered up and time taken to compliment a laugh or share some commonality in written words is a beautiful thing, and every bit of it makes me want to pour myself into my writing and the people I meet a trillion times more.
October 7, 2016 11:56 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on No Regrets
There is a difference between having no regrets and learning to live with them.
October 4, 2016 10:27 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Trusting Strangers
Many of us remember being told as children to never trust strangers, or at least to never accept candy from them or get into their cars. I’ve long since broken all of those rules.
September 26, 2016 1:35 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Sin of Forgetting
“And that’s the problem. I think God is up there and answering prayers, but we take that for granted. We want something, we get it, we’re done until we need something else. And as soon as we get what we wanted, we aren’t even happy about it anymore. To me, that’s the biggest sin. The sin of forgetting.”
September 19, 2016 11:31 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Mayor, Sheriff, Razorback Fan, Pizza Parlor Owner.
“How did ya’ll find us?” Todd and Angie seemed to ask simultaneously. Our story made them smile and they brought everyone out from the kitchen to re-tell it
August 27, 2016 5:45 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Dances With Wolves
It’s no secret that I believe strongly in seeking discomfort in the form of wolf tongues and hot deserts and mountain monsoons, because the particulars are always unpredictable.
August 9, 2016 2:43 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on What Happens in Vegas
I used to wonder how I could ever earnestly dance or love or have a conversation again after I felt that part of me atrophy under the weight of irony and sarcasm and a million unanswered questions.
July 28, 2016 10:42 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on On the Road Again
Getting nearly killed by a car, or anything else for that matter, can be a magnificent blessing in disguise. It... View Article
June 29, 2016 7:24 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Headaches and Hope in Tomorrow
First-person nonfiction often relies on the premise that something extraordinary has to happen to someone in order for them to... View Article
March 29, 2016 11:53 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Algorithm of Life
It is little exaggeration to say that “everyone” is now discussing the imminent disruption to the social order, that in... View Article
January 19, 2016 2:52 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Houston Marathon and The Human Spirit
Howdy! I’m working on writing a book of stories and observations like these. Would you read it? Why or why... View Article
December 8, 2015 12:05 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on The Unsung Praises of Pop Music
We spend a lot of life burying simple, earnest joy beneath complicated oxymorons like the idea of the “guilty pleasure.” This phrase is most often connoted with songs that we somehow “shouldn’t” like but secretly do, anyways.
November 6, 2015 3:57 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Town, Country, Action
There is so little practical difficulty in the day-to-day of most of us that we have to create solutions to nonexistent problems for our own entertainment, to provide that sense of accomplishment and satisfaction where none can be found... In comfort, so few demands are made of us that we can sit and pontificate until we unravel.
I don’t have to wallow in sorrow and self-loathing to be at my artistic best—maybe I’d write a more poignant novel in the Modernist style if I allowed myself to keep feeling as I did two years ago—but I can be informed by that knowledge of high art as I create something filled with high hope.
October 22, 2015 12:21 pmPublished by John Montesi3 Comments
We don’t all have to bleed or travel to postcard-worthy places to remind ourselves that we are more capable than we think.
October 2, 2015 12:39 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Aging Artfully
As we wonder how to age well, how to make it to our seventh generation and sit on the stage with our hats pulled low not as a display of hubris but for dramatic effect, it’s easy to wonder if we can learn from the mistakes our predecessors have made, or if we can only learn from them that mistakes will be made.
September 11, 2015 1:10 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Never Forget
In an era where Moore’s Law is hopelessly outdated, nothing has surpassed the way that date and its imagery imprinted itself on all of our psyches.
August 7, 2015 1:57 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on A Vegetal Compulsion
And I have achieved something through a long and quite painful process that I didn’t realize I’d been longing for all along. Joan Didion put words to it when she said of Amado: “It seemed to me that day that I had never talked to anyone so direct and unembarrassed about the things he loved.”
July 20, 2015 12:08 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Songs You Know by Heart: An Epitaph for Innocence
The plaintive echo of steel drums is reinforced by the Coral Reefers’ horn section. That particular melancholy of timpanis we’ve... View Article
May 22, 2015 12:37 pmPublished by John MontesiComments Off on There Aren’t Any Good Books About That
I was in my favorite book store in Texas the other night. It’s one of the biggest remaining in America.... View Article
May 1, 2015 11:35 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Why You’d Want to Live Here
It is only fitting that I return to Los Angeles hastily and under grey and cloudy skies. I have lost... View Article
April 8, 2015 10:59 amPublished by John MontesiComments Off on Hello to a River
The idea that a river has a character distinct from all other rivers seems impossibly provincial. If someone had said... View Article